I'll start by saying that it is definitely not cheating, not at all. If it was, it would just be called cheating; you wouldn't need the modifier in front.
We do that a lot now, double speak. Verbal assault is not a thing. I didn't friggen hit you. But, I digress.
Similarly, Quiet Quitting is not quitting your job. It is just halfassing your job. If it were quitting, union workers have been quitting their jobs for over a hundred years.
Some say that watching porn can be Emotional Cheating. Again, see my above point. Because, if EC is a thing, the bar is set way too low.
Women watching soap operas or reading romantic novels to fulfill their intimacy needs (or to substitute them) in place of a real relationship would be tres guilty of EC as well. Jordan Peterson says that men and women look for different things.
Jesus set the bar very high, very. But, I don't think it was in condemnation of what we fantasize about. Rather, I think it was to subdue the snooty judgmental people condemning adulterers as subhuman sinners, unworthy of even breathing.
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