Ask Not

I remember Canon Farr saying that he hated the ultimatum, people saying they were going to leave the Church if it didn't marry gay couples, people saying they were going to leave the Church if it did marry gay couples.  I think he was more of a ask not what your Church can do for you, ask what you can do for your Church kind of guy.  I think it may have been part of the reason he retired, the pressure of the controversies, he and a lot of other clergy.